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Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Long Distance Relationship
The definition of long distance relationship in my terms is couple living apart from each other in a considerably a far distance or maybe different states or even countries for a long time.
All the couples will feel to reluctant to leave away their boyfriend or girlfriend behind but they will end up with no choice.
This might because of study or work purpose.
Then may come all kinds of hope of continuing the relationship without any physical contacts.
My term of physical contact is see, hear, and touch.
Since the technology has well advanced, there is phones, and via internet video calling applications and also messenger applications too.
The hopes are definitely made possible by these applications and facilities.
My question is
All the couples will feel to reluctant to leave away their boyfriend or girlfriend behind but they will end up with no choice.
This might because of study or work purpose.
Then may come all kinds of hope of continuing the relationship without any physical contacts.
My term of physical contact is see, hear, and touch.
Since the technology has well advanced, there is phones, and via internet video calling applications and also messenger applications too.
The hopes are definitely made possible by these applications and facilities.
My question is
CAN YOU LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS OF FULFILLING YOUR HOPES?
The harsh truth is long distance relationships need more than just those phone or applications to be think of.
The question should start from inside you.
Are you determined with this guy or girl?
Are you fine without being in a physical contact?
Are you weak enough to fall for another person?
Although you might be strong in your belief but there is always some other factors that may make you fall.
Life is always unpredictable.
You never know with who you actually destined with and maybe the person who is long distance relationship with you maybe not meant you.
How sure are you wheter the other person is also doing the same for you? that is waiting for you?
You may talk about being in a strong and stable relationship but there is always a but.
So, always be loose and free with your life if you are unsure about things that are long termed.
You never know what can happen tomorrow.
I am actually not scaring you or what, just giving you piece of mind on reevaluating your opinion or view long distance relationship.
I would like to salute the people who managed long distance relationship and get married eventually.
Memories To be Forgotten
Let me give a scenario,
"Currently you are in a relationship and the things between you and the person going smooth.
Both of you having good time together and the romance has no words to describe.
Everyone in the neighborhood or maybe in people in a common place example like a college or workplace, knows about both of you.
There are lots of intimate memories of both you in the forms of photos and since there are many social networking sites , the photos are staying there forever as a memories of both of you.
Everything feels like a dream."
Everything feels like a dream."
But let me bring a twist to this story.
Both of you due to unavoidable incident had to break up.
Break up is tough and both of you will have to go to two separate ways.
But how about the memories of both of you?
They definitely be remembered by the people who know about both you.
It is not just a piece of memory that is in one person but a lots of pieces of memories on lots of people.
Moreover, there will be hundreds of photos of both of you scattered in the social networking sites.
One day, anyone from your present can ask about both of you to you.
It will be fine if both of you got together.
What if both you end being with a different people.
Is your spouse can handle it or either you can hid away from your past?
Memories once generated , they will stay there forever unless you have amnesia and you stay away from the people of your past.
It is not necessarily with a person who loved you back but applies also the person you had crush too and you tried your luck on the person and you might have told some people or someone could seen you doing it.
Something are really not avoidable. Memories are not easily forgotten.
Think about it.
I am not finished yet. You actually should cry over something which has already happened.
Be thankful that they happened and they made you a stronger person.
Memories are not meant to be forgotten.
They should be treasured whether it is sad or happy.
They are the ones which will accompany in your old age.
True Story
It is not just a piece of memory that is in one person but a lots of pieces of memories on lots of people.
Moreover, there will be hundreds of photos of both of you scattered in the social networking sites.
One day, anyone from your present can ask about both of you to you.
It will be fine if both of you got together.
What if both you end being with a different people.
Is your spouse can handle it or either you can hid away from your past?
Memories once generated , they will stay there forever unless you have amnesia and you stay away from the people of your past.
It is not necessarily with a person who loved you back but applies also the person you had crush too and you tried your luck on the person and you might have told some people or someone could seen you doing it.
Something are really not avoidable. Memories are not easily forgotten.
Think about it.
I am not finished yet. You actually should cry over something which has already happened.
Be thankful that they happened and they made you a stronger person.
Memories are not meant to be forgotten.
They should be treasured whether it is sad or happy.
They are the ones which will accompany in your old age.
True Story
Getting Rid of Unwanted Crush
Hello everyone, I recently helped a good friend of mine get rid an unwanted crush from a guy. Well I cant lie,I was successful enough. I just used a previous experience of mine back in 2010 with a girl who lead me on until she have a boyfriend in 2011.Cant blame her too because I didn't take any initiative to confront her and I just tried to express my feelings in other ways which no literally put me in friendzone without me realising it. Then I have this sense of sympathy for guys who definitely not having a shot on their crush and kind of becoming a nuisance to their crush.
You know what this crushes will do, buy for gifts on for their crush special occasion, texts their crush every time, even find time to be with their crush and the list will go on.
Let me come to point straight away, I have this good friend of mine who had this unwanted crush and I had this feel of sympathy for the guy who do not know he going to break his heart if he go on doing them like what happen to me. So I decide to help my friend to get rid of this guy's attention.
What I did?
The exactly same things that would made me understand that I'm not going to win the girl whom I had crush over.
Step 1
Ignorance
Try your best to ignore this guy or girl but be careful because ignorance also can lead to some theories in their head.
Example of the the theories are
So doing this Ignorance,
Step 2
True Story
If you have more complicated case ,just let me know
I would love to try some new challenges.
You know what this crushes will do, buy for gifts on for their crush special occasion, texts their crush every time, even find time to be with their crush and the list will go on.
Let me come to point straight away, I have this good friend of mine who had this unwanted crush and I had this feel of sympathy for the guy who do not know he going to break his heart if he go on doing them like what happen to me. So I decide to help my friend to get rid of this guy's attention.
What I did?
The exactly same things that would made me understand that I'm not going to win the girl whom I had crush over.
Step 1
Ignorance
Try your best to ignore this guy or girl but be careful because ignorance also can lead to some theories in their head.
Example of the the theories are
- maybe the person is having trouble in accepting a person
- maybe she have some dark secrets
- maybe she has a gangster brother or family(seriously I had this theory)
- maybe she is having an incurable disease
So doing this Ignorance,
- Do not reply the person whenever the person texted you and you should not ever think about texting him for anything too.I understand that if you might want to be nice but for god sake do not reply if you want to cut of this unwanted crush.
- Definitely the second day, he will meet up you at the usual place where both of you will be there ,example like a classroom and may ask why you didn't reply the text. You must answer him that you were busy and don't text you in a stern voice. If you cant do the stern voice ,just tell that you are busy. Try to take some precaution in avoiding his advance
Step 2
Precaution
Try to take some precaution in avoiding his advance.
- Avoid any circumstances that may make him\her to feel that there is any chance that you may have the attraction over him too.
For example, avoid things that lead to him and of course you can ask other people about your work or problem like asking a doubt. - Be strict with your opinion and also in conversation in both you. Don't give him a easy way to change your opinion or something.
True Story
If you have more complicated case ,just let me know
I would love to try some new challenges.
The Butterfly Effect
Hello everyone...I would like to talk about this theory which happen to me and i managed to prove this by doing some observation on others as well.
Butterfly Effect
Why you suddenly start to like or find your opposite sex friend is looking prettier and beautiful but the first time you saw her; she does not look pretty and you can find any defects in her. Why is this so?
I will explain this with stages of growth of caterpillar into a butterfly..
Stage 1
The Caterpillar
Butterfly Effect
Why you suddenly start to like or find your opposite sex friend is looking prettier and beautiful but the first time you saw her; she does not look pretty and you can find any defects in her. Why is this so?
I will explain this with stages of growth of caterpillar into a butterfly..
Stage 1
The Caterpillar
First you notice the person as an ugly caterpillar and confirm yourself with the idea that you definitely would not like her or have any friendly relationship with that person.This stage will continue till the caterpillar start to eat.
Stage 2
The Hunger
Soon as you know in the life process of a caterpillar, it will get really hungry and start to eat a lot and lot till it becomes large.
In this stage the moment you get know the person and begin to talk and made friends with that person and well this the Hunger stage.You do not know what is getting bigger and you will be feeding it without knowing it.
Stage 3
The Sickness
As you know anyone who eats a lot will get stomachache eventually and so does the caterpillar will get sick.
Well at this stage, you will get the thought of security and familiarity with that person maybe because the person approaches you with the sense of caring and happy note. The worse moment, sharing the problem with you.Beware of that moment but most probably you would not realise it because you may get excited to hear the complaints of others and the happenings around you. There are possibility the person may confront you with a love note.
Stage 4
The Cocoon
The sick caterpillar will become a cocoon.
This period is where you may have the thought that the person may become really attractive in front of your eyes and also inside your heart too. Some dramas may happen and they really will affect you for a second thought.Thats the butterfly effect and it has get into your thoughts.If you determined enough, you may escape from the getting into the last stage.
The final and the last stage,
Stage 5
The Butterfly
The caterpillar will become a beautiful butterfly.
This stage, well I am sorry to say you may not remember the 1st stage.You will fall in love with that person and it will end up both of you together.Congratulations.
As this theory is proven to be happening all around the world and it may happen to you too.
This has the possibility of breaking the love in the first sight law.
Beware of the butterfly effect.....
True Story.
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